I have the exact same sentiments. Have the KW V3s & they not nearly as low as I'd liked!!! All round drive/handling is Superb!!!! -but if its stance you after the KW V3s wont be the answer
What settings are you using front and rear?
Just got my kw v3 fitted today ( thanks rs3del) I'm running the recommended settings for a week or so to see how it feels.